You catch them on a call and they act very suspicious once they see you. The come home smelling like someone different. They just begin acting ‘stranger than usual’ over all and you don’t quite know why?
If you’re suspicious that your partner is cheating on you yet you don’t have quite enough evidence to back it up then you’re in the right place.
We’re going to go over some techniques used by private investigators who specialize in catching a cheating spouse so you can take it right to them after you’ve got undeniable proof… or let your mind rest easy once it’s discovered those suspicions were just that and nothing is really going on.
Understand the law
Though we’d all love the freedom to just do what it takes to get to the bottom of things, the fact of the matter is that we live in a society with rules and laws. It’s important to not forget that there are certain human rights laws which allow for limited surveillance under particular conditions.
Something important which was brought up is that it’s perfectly legal to snoop on a man in order to protect one’s emotional well being, but it’s not at all legal to do this for financial gain. Lucky for us, we’re dealing with the first one.
Now, we must give a little disclaimer here and that is… We are under no circumstances giving you permission to break the law, nor are we even encouraging it. Doing so will not only put you in jeopardy but it could also affect your family and career. If you need to, then we’d highly recommend consulting with a lawyer first before proceeding with anything else you read in the following text of this article.
Bug their vehicle
This one pushes the envelope a bit which is why we list it here above the other suggestions below. There are very strict rules in place when it comes to gathering evidence in this way. You’ll need to check into local laws but in many cases it’s legal to place a tracking device on the outside of the car, so long as it won’t affect the vehicle’s performance in some way.
If you do decide to place that little bug on the inside of the vehicle you do risk legal action against you and we simply don’t want that.
Use a “honey-trap”
This one is more for those who are involved with the “player type” and suspect they may be playing the field when out of the home and can’t quite pin it to that cheater just yet.
The idea is simple… set up a situation where a “trap” is introduced to your partner and then test them over time to see how they react and if they take the bait or not. The trick to this is making it unobvious because in today’s age of the camera-phone it’s way too easy to catch evidence and chances are high that your partner knows this and will be on their best behaviour if they even for a second small a trap.
Look for the side-piece’s social profile
This one sounds simple to do but chances are if you try to do this yourself you’ll wind up spending days or weeks hunting for a ghost. That said, for anyone interested in giving it a shot, here’s how it’s done.
You need to get the phone number of whomever it is your partner is sneaking around with. If you’d like a really good idea of one method to do this then have a look at this article right here.
Look for the section talking about using their phone because you’ve lost your own.
Once you’ve managed to get a list of suspect phone numbers off their contact list you can do a reverse-phone number search and find out who those numbers really belong to. Armed with a name and number and quite possibly a location you can take to the internet and start looking for this other person and maybe you’ll get a chance to spot suspicious activity.
On the other-hand, you may want to let a professional service do all the hard work for you in which case you may want to try the following services.
You can use the link above to help you find who those suspicious phone numbers really belong to.
The link above will let you do a search on any name and location which could lead to more helpful information just in case you wind up needing it.
Something you could always try doing is searching Facebook with the phone numbers you’ve found off your partner’s phone just in case it leads to anything that looks like it could help you catch them cheating. Just be sure to not become a stalker and do your best not to harass anybody, especially if you’re not absolutely sure that individual is snoozing with your partner or not.