How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

The Easiest Way to Catch a Cheating Spouse

Suspecting a spouse of cheating? 

This is a terrible feeling, and it can only go away if we disprove that they are cheating in the first place.

Many people will start by hiring a private investigator. This usually is not the best option.

It is actually possible to do your own online investigation using this free search tool called TruthFinder. 

You can discover the truth immediately. TruthFinder allows you to do an instant investigation and provides a full activity report on a cheating spouse on the person you are searching.

When you suspect a cheating spouse you really want to start looking into what they’re doing immediately.

It’s best when they don’t suspect you of being suspicious. You need to curb the cycle of distrust early in order to have a chance at saving a relationship. 

No one like tracking their wife or husbands every move but it is necessary in order to satisy your needs, and repair your relationship. Best of all a tool like Truthfinder can prove they’re not cheating as well!

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Here are some more things to consider as you try to Catch a Cheating Spouse.

Catch a Cheating Spouse : Technology

So there are all sorts of applications for mobile phones or tablets and a ton of software for your spouse’s computer.

There is also an array of relatively new spy methods to setup audio and video recording throughout your house. You can also consider using GPS trackers. There’s no way your spouse can hide from you.

Another great technological tool for catching a cheater is the TruthScouts Spy Phone tool. You can see everything including social media profiles, hidden pics and videos and so much more. this also works by providing a full confidential report online.

Other technology designed to catch a cheating spouse can be found at cheaters spy shop. You can find miniature hidden cameras that you can place throughout the house disguised as fully functioning around the house, every day objects. Or you can place a small GPS tracker under their drivers seat for a full account of their trail throughout the day, as you weren’t present.

All of this technology is made so that your life is easier when dealing with a cheating spouse. Don’t rely on the age old following your spouse two cars back to see where they’re going. Who has time for that? Let it be, and watch on your own time and at your convenience. See when texts are being sent and received and where they have been going.

Catch a Cheating Spouse by Asking Questions

Now you don’t have to start out by accusing them. You simply have to start asking basic questions. Don’t raise their suspicions that you’re catching on either. Don’t make speculative statements like “oh you’re suddenly working late a lot” or, “oh what took you so long at work?”. What this does is it forces them to give you some form of an answer and then they start racking up the lie points.

The lies are going to be the final nail in their coffin because even if you catch them red handed but never in a lie, they could apologize it away and say they’ll change.

By the time you come to confronting them, you’ll have seen how many lies your spouse has told you. You’ll be too aware of how often they’ve tried to cover up for themselves whenever it was questioned.

By not making speculative statements to their responses you accomplish two things: 1. You’re not giving them too many hints that you think something is up, and 2. You’re not feeding in to their cover-ups.

Answering to their response with only “oh okay” allows them time to reflect on what they just said because you’re not extending a conversation. You’re only acknowledging that they did give you an answer.

Catch a Cheating Spouse: Compile Evidence

You’ve gone through the steps of tracking, monitoring and observing their every move for maybe a week or even a few months. Now you have to dig through everything you’ve found. This is the one part where technology makes it more difficult because now you have so much information you have to determine what it is that is incriminating and what is just fluff. The key things to look for when you’re sorting through the dealings of a cheating spouse is to focus on newly forged habits.

People in general are creatures of habit and if he realized he could tell you he works late on Wednesdays then he’ll probably keep seeing whoever it is on the side on Wednesdays. The theory they have here is that if one day in particular you’re really busy or don’t mind so much that they’re out, then it’s like a license to kill.

First draw out the recent explanations your spouse has had for being late or blowing you off. Then mark in a time line of when they’re supposed to be in specific places. So you have two time lines, one with their obligations and a second with the excuses on when daily routines were altered or plans were changed short notice. This is what you want to focus on.

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38 thoughts on “How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

  • July 8, 2017 at 2:35 am
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    Can I get deleted text messages

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    • January 23, 2018 at 11:04 pm
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      if I ask the right questions he answers it, but he is still leaving things out. I just want the truth so I can get on with my life!

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    • August 2, 2018 at 6:21 am
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      My old man of 12yrs.just hasn’t been acting right.I love him but I got to know if his cheating

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      • November 10, 2019 at 6:44 pm
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        Chances are you should do some snooping around to find out for yourself

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  • July 11, 2017 at 10:56 pm
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    I need tbe app tbat can be installed on his phone or monitor his phone with thought me having to physically have possesion of the device. She has it locked i cant get in it… something undetectable for he won’t know it’s me

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    • September 4, 2020 at 3:41 pm
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      I need something he can’t detect on his phone because I know he has all of this on my old phone, and the GPS in my car. And I’ve never cheated, he’s the unfaithful one!

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      • December 18, 2020 at 3:53 am
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        Just would like to know if raul jacquez is married age is 42 lives in compton

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  • September 3, 2017 at 3:19 am
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    So this guy that I was dating I couldn’t figure out if he was lying or was sowmhoe super busy when I called/texted. So I took it in to my own hands and used some investigation tips and wa la.

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    • October 5, 2018 at 5:28 am
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      What did you do? And was it revealing?

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      • March 16, 2021 at 10:12 am
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        In a long term relationship and I just have that feeling somethings not right. She uses and I can tell. I haven’t said anything about it, just go on and act like nothing is happening.

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    • February 12, 2021 at 5:06 am
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      So my husband and I been married 14 years and together 17 four months ago he moved out and we have been sapperated ever since. See the thing is were suppose to be working things out but it just seems like it’s getting worse and worse. Now we’re accusing each other of cheating see I do everything try not to make him think I’m doing that cuz I’m not but yet he’ll do things like not answer his phone all night long hang up when somebody walks in the door he’ll delete messages. He’ll want my phone but want give me his. And then tell me I’m crazy and seeing things. The other night his phone was off and now all of a study he lost his phone. We go thought start talk we have the same email but at times I notice he logges off. I have all his info to his phone like imei serial number ie number etc is there anyway I could get here so they just texts or phone log are transfer his data to my phone since his phone is lost

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  • November 2, 2017 at 8:47 am
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    I really need some help this has been going on for a long time now and i keep finding stuff like ( skout, live me,and other sits ) he has changed his pass word he got a new ph and gave me his old one well in his history that he thought he cleared showed from January 17th chat sites and other thing’s when i have ask him to just tell me he still lies to me there’s other thing’s that he does he’s very shady with his ph anyway i need a trusted app that is free that i can get my proff in black and white HELP

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    • October 31, 2020 at 11:41 pm
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      I bought a small digital voice recorder and put it in my husbands gym bag. You would be surprised the conversations. There is a woman, and now he tries to avoid her. Why would you avoid someone if you haven’t been fooling around with them! I guess he thinks I am stupid, believe me, I am not. I just recently ordered a pen, looks like a regular pen.Gotta try something new since he found my other one…Wish you luck.. All I wanted was the truth…

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  • November 15, 2017 at 1:42 pm
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    I have a lot of unanswered questions and I can’t get access to her phone. What is the best app to remotely install?

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  • January 3, 2018 at 8:21 pm
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    I think my boyfriend is cheating

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    • June 6, 2018 at 2:30 am
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      All the time you spend worrying and trying to catch him or her could be spent moving on cause if there is doubt its doomed anyhow. So why stress and make the quality of life worse for yourself. I speak from experience and when its right youll know and wonder why you wasted time stressing in the past.

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  • February 15, 2018 at 3:15 am
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    My boyfriend is a f****t

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  • August 10, 2018 at 5:54 am
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    I fucking hate my life. I cannot believe i have two kids with this woman. She stood by my side for so long.Im and ex drug addict and now that im out of selling drugs and being a piece of shit. Getting my life together and treating her better she treats me like shit. I think she is cheating…

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    • September 18, 2018 at 5:38 am
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      It’s the opposite for me I used to be the one selling drugs doing everything I held him down and all I ask is for him to be faithful and you couldn’t even do that I know what you going through I feel you big time hopefully you’ll find somebody that appreciate you I hope I do take care my friend

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  • November 16, 2018 at 12:16 am
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    Really need spy on it.

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  • December 21, 2018 at 5:33 pm
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    Omg sounds familiar I have a spouse of 10 yrs last 9 month’s since new job which is basically working your own hours and every day of the week he’s very shady but this is the first time ever he stopped calling texting me all the way to complete loss of intimacy he has excuses first time ever he always been sexual it goes on and on lie after lie

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  • April 1, 2019 at 2:09 pm
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    My husband never home he all ways say he’s gonna work with his brother and sometimes he’s gone the hole week

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  • June 18, 2019 at 3:03 pm
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    I know my husband is cheating but he tells everyone that I’m a jealous wife and it’s all in my head. I need proof

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  • August 4, 2019 at 7:46 am
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    My boyfriend of 7 years had been cheating on me almost since the beginning. He screwed around with our mentally disabled next door neighbor, my niece thru marriage, and he even messed around with my other neighbor’s daughter who lived 2 doors down from us! He promised her some meth in exchange for sex and when it was all said and done he told her he had to go home to get it and never gave her the meth! This was while I was in the hospital having spinal neck surgery! And there has been several more. I’m just sick over all of it!!! I’m just finding all this out recently!!! Yes he is a real piece of shit!!! Oh and, yes, we have split!!! Good riddance!!!!

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  • December 19, 2019 at 1:33 am
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    unbeleivable to find my girl friend / best friend for over the last 3 years has been lying out screwing and meeting with guys. guys she has introduced me to even as friends or acquaintances.
    she hooked onto me with both claws when i was financially stable yet under great stress and overwhelmed with the pain and agony of my wife just passing a year prior.
    Things have gone down hill loosing my job then house then she wrecked my car.
    Since my downfall we lived basically on the streets. I couldnt get help from freinds or family as they didnt want to help the 2 of us. Anyhoo long story short Im now in a 16ft trailer and she’s at her Moms. I discovered she has been having affairs with someone i know yet tells me she’s sleeping while shes staying at motels, meeting him in his storage unit, mention of car sex, his house her moms house all within a weeks period. When confronted and shown evidence (text messages) she lied & lied until she finally admitted that they only meet because he pays her to just sit and watch him masturbate. Evidence shows more than that but still i get no admission and she continues to tell me how she loves blah blah

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  • June 6, 2020 at 6:18 am
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    My name is Crystal Maldonado and I was wondering if there for my boyfriend is been liening to and cheating on his name is Charles king and I rather know if there for he has been speaking the truth our false accusations

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    • February 10, 2021 at 2:10 am
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      well secrets dating sites over 150 an emails from woman all comes to my email messages an calls on a different number so nothing on bill hes got shit all over my phone want to put something on my car soi can see if hes coming back to neighbors house cause works night everytime confront breaks phone36 years together married 16 2 kids an 3 grand babies but sex is all him focus on him only i get nothing ever when it come to sex with me omg limp limp always i have needs too no kiss nothing i have to know free nothing on his phone but what help

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  • August 6, 2021 at 3:45 am
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    Look my husband is always always accusing me of cheating and we have been married since 2008 and I have never cheated on him I have always been told the guilty speaks first and I just want to be sure for my self please help me I don’t have any credit or debit cards or anything like that at all if it isn’t free then I will never know can someone please help me thanks Rhonda

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  • August 6, 2021 at 10:11 pm
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    “I was in Miami with my HUSBAND and his parent for vacation. We had flown there on their private jet for a

    great weekend. Something felt off. Like, really off. And I did what you’re never supposed to do I reached

    out to hackgoodnesstech on insta, gram who helped me gain access to his phone without him knowing. It turns

    out he slept with someone else! So, there I am in Miami with his family with no way of hopping a flight back

    and we weren’t scheduled to leave for 2 more days. And this was our wedding anniversary. Right before dinner

    with his family.” MEN ARE WHAT?

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  • September 4, 2021 at 1:58 am
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    my husband is greg montoya and he swears hes not doing any thing but i put a phone recording in our house when i was with my daughter in the hospital she was having surgery for her cancer . she lost her kidney that day any way he was cheating and i found out about some person he thought was pregnant so yeah hide a recorder in the house some where he likes to hang out . that worked for me

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  • September 16, 2021 at 5:37 pm
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    My husband cheated before and I decided to stick it out. My senses tell me something still isn’t right and I keep finding little clues in his google history of online hookups but I have a tracker on him. Everything can be explained away because he’s in sales and goes to customers homes. I’m trying to figure out how he’s hiding things on his phone because every time I look at it, it’s different. I installed google maps and the next time, it was gone and had no trace of it even being downloaded. Sometimes his voicemail is there and then sometimes it doesn’t even show he’s set it up. Sometimes he’s not even signed into his App Store. Any ideas on what he’s doing or what app he may be using to disguise his phone??

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