Life is interesting, believe me it is. And the most intriguing thing is the fact that we are being governed by some certain laws of nature. For instance, if one defaults whether in an organization or in a certain confined setting, then it’s only inevitable that the aftermath action will be to impose appropriate punishment or sanction on such a person.
And if by any chance the the defaulter doesn’t want to play according to the rules by accepting to being punished, then, he/she will have to maneuver their way either through bribery or any other means available. Sadly today, this has gotten into our matrimonial homes were a spouse after committing a defiling act, tends to cover up their dreadful act by lavishing their partners with what I would term sets of “Uncalled for” gifts.
So in today’s article we’ll be looking at those gifts that guilty spouses give to their partners whenever they are culpable of an offense. And the good thing is that at the end of this write-up, you’ll be able to decipher on when a gift is actually a gift, and when it is a just a gesture of cover up for something mysterious. So without much ado, let’s get to know these gift!
Pardon me, but I’d love to start with this first, as it is always common in most relationships. If in a short notice, your spouse starts giving you kisses at awkward places or awkward times, then something is certainly fishy. Psychologically, that only happens when the subconscious mind of a person tends to make atonement for their mysterious offenses. And sometimes, it also spells out betrayal. So when next he or she gives you an awkward kiss, do cease that opportunity to ask them what’s really going on.
Cinemas at Odd Hours
If your spouse all of a sudden starts investing a colossal of efforts into taking you to watching movies at the cinemas, even when he ought to rest or go for a walk, then something is verily up. For instance, he comes back around 8.pm at night after a long day at work, and still insists on taking you out to the movies. How strange!
Getting you flowers
Receiving flowers from your spouse is such a beautiful thing until it starts coming at a clumsy sequence and time. Imagine him getting you flowers in a sunny Sunday afternoon, I mean, how awkward!
Collections of Jewelry
Yes, ladies love jewelry and we’d go extra length to getting a man that will meet this part of our needs. But, when you keep getting sets of jewelry collection worth good amounts of money, like almost every weekend, then there is certainly a skeleton in your husband’s cupboard.
Money is the most common way through which guilty spouses use in covering up for their hidden offenses. So, if in a short notice, he starts giving you huge amount of money every single second, with or without asking; in comparison to how he used to, then you better start digging up what’s really popping.
As women, we can’t deny our undying love for a man that is ready to give us all his attention in the world. However, if your husband who barely used to give you attention, instantaneously starts showering you with a great deal of attention. Then chances are that he is trying to hide something from you. He is doing that to have your attention, and at the same time, wade off any opportunity of you finding out what’s actually going on.
Okay, now this is the big one. And it only occurs if the magnitude of the offense is very high. So, if he gets you a car, and soon after asks if you would love to get another, like your some car garage, then he is just trying to please you by all cost in order to take your eyes off the price.
Now, if you take a close look at these gifts there is something very common about them and that is the fact that your spouse will always get you all these gifts at odd times and moments.
So whenever you feel like he is acting a little bit clumsy by giving you gift both tangible and intangible that aren’t really called for at the moment, then he is certainly guilty of something. Just as we said earlier, if a person doesn’t want to dance to the tune of his music, then he’ll have to cut corners!