19 thoughts on “How I Caught My Husband Cheating and How My Life Changed!

  • June 6, 2016 at 3:22 am
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    I wanna know if my man is cheating on me

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    • June 7, 2016 at 10:33 pm
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      Girl check on that, cause man are pathological lier..my man believe in his lies and he thinks that he’s telling the truth.

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  • June 6, 2016 at 6:34 am
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    I believe my wife is cheating on me but I can’t prove it. She never wants sex any more, she just keeps saying oh we will soon. That has been going on since last September.
    What should i do?

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    • June 7, 2016 at 10:36 pm
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      Divorce her…” trust me”, she cheating.. what you can do is test her don’t ask her for sex. Just go for it and see what she does.

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    • June 8, 2016 at 9:53 pm
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      Same here September 2015,”” it h been a constant battle and lying and saying that I was crazy and that it was me,I worshiped the ground he walked on and he’s mean and hateful and demeaning and I told him that he was beautiful every that comment that he ever gave me I gave you a good comment back ,yes he is cheating and never loved me ,,, fact sad sad and don’t know what to do I am broken hearted Heather

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    • April 28, 2019 at 9:08 pm
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      Hey Troy, I have the same exact problem, only it’s all on line. At least I think so. The sad part is our society, marriage and many other things are falling a part because of all the new technical things they can use. All I can say is, don’t waste your time on your wife.. Start going out, be with your friends and let her know by your actions your not waiting around until she say’s, oh I found someone I love and blah, blah, bah, or the sob story, I was board, or I won’t do it again but they will. Also, the person who is cheating will try and put the blame on the party who is not. That’s shameful. They need to take responsibility for what they did and if there was a problem, instead of cheating, the person should grow up, talk with their spouse to straighten things out, to resolve the problem. They need to take responsibility for what they did. IF you love her do some investigation, find out and then decide if you really want to stay or leave and find someone who will be true to you and you only. I’m currently making plans to move on, but my partner doesn’t know it yet. However, I did throw in a word to him saying, I do have a room mate lined up and all sudden they cared and wanted to know who is it? I said, “Why in the world would you care after what your doing and have done”?. My partner didn’t know how to answer that one. Also remember there are so many scammers on the internet it’s ridiculous. The whole deal is sad. 20 years might be down the drain and since it’s been 2 and after years, I’m done. I’ve had enough punishment for a lifetime. Good luck who ever get’s him cuz this isn’t his first time doing this. Life is to short to be playing games with another persons heart. We could be here one day in life and gone the next. None of us know when we will be called home so live life to it’s fullest and find someone who truly loves you.

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      • October 11, 2019 at 11:29 am
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        Lord that sounds familiar! Only cheating is NOT in my husband’s nature & I have believed in him 100% for almost 30 yrs, so when it happened after 23 yrs of marriage needless to say I was….I don’t know if there’s even a word that would adequately describe the humiliating shock, rage & pretty much homicidal anger that took over!

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    • May 16, 2019 at 5:56 pm
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      I agree cheating. Definitely!
      However, if you want your marriage to work I would seek help with councilor together.
      If she is not willing, then divorce her. There are so many woman out there who would love to fall in love with a true guy. It’s so hard to let go of those we THINK we love, but is this how you want to be treated? Believe me I understand since I have a cheating husband. The lies, the phone numbers and so much more. I would be gone in a minute , but I’m stuck right now until I get a few things done..
      Ask yourself this, do you want peace, love and fun times to share things with? Or do you want constant stress wondering, worrying where she is & what’s going on, and so on? Also, will you ever be able to trust her again if you did know? Would it make a difference in what you would do? You deserve to be treated with respect, love and honor just like it states “Two become one” when married, let no man tear this union a part. Don’t let her step all over you. Get out while you can! Run as fast as you can! I know it’s hard believe me, but in the end when you find that one special true love that can be true, & will love you in return, then you will think, why did I wait so long to divorce her.

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  • June 6, 2016 at 11:59 pm
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    My man is cheating on me. He told me himself that he talking to my sister’s ‘n law.”which is my brother’s wife. He said he wasn’t going to hurt me again. He lied.. he ruined my Christmas thtee years ago. That’s when he told me he messing with her. He’s doing it again, I track the cal logs all I see was her number… we been together for 18yrs.

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      • February 18, 2019 at 1:22 pm
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        As long as your name is on the car that is a great idea. I did it but I bought one you could remove and charge and reattached after after it was fully charged. It is a great tool and it really opened my eyes to his …. sleeping choices . Lol right! Anyway I bought it off amazon and you can get the box to place the tracker in side. It is water proof and the magnets on the carrier box is wonderful. You can attach it under the car where it cannot be seen. And remove in about 2 seconds. The live updated will go to your cell and it’s crazy accurate.

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  • September 14, 2016 at 1:13 pm
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    [email protected] (yahoo). com did a love spell for me about 3 days ago and boyfriend started loving me again…

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  • July 22, 2018 at 7:32 am
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    My boyfriend of 7 years went out of town to work with his boss.
    He was supposed to be back in one month. Which was fine with me.
    Well he returned early 2 weeks.
    I was excited to see my boyfriend since I was already missing him alot. We do not live together.
    We had plans with eachother that evening upon his return from working out of town. We both agreed that he would come to see me first thing.
    He called me and asked me if I was ready to see him?… I said “yes”….. As I was waiting for him to come by my house, time was going by: I was expecting him to meet me within 20 minutes from the time we spoke to eachother on the phone.
    1 hour went by , Then 2 , 3, hours later I text him asking what was going on?
    He replied with an excuse that he was having his alignment fixed on his vehicle by a mechanic friend of his.
    Yet it was 12:30 a.m. at night. Dark out.
    I personally couldn’t understand why he didn’t call me to let me know he had a change in plans. Why would he decide to have his alignment fixed at the same time he was supposed to come see me.?
    Basically he FLAKED OUT on me & LIED.!!!
    I am hurt and for some reason I believe he is seeing someone else. ..
    What should I do.???

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    • February 18, 2019 at 1:35 pm
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      Girl!!! He is cheating. No question. If you can you should look at the phone grt the numbers you don’t recognize. Take a screen shot with your phone and get an app called BeenVerified. You can look up everything on there. It gives you anything you need. If all you have is a name you can look that up to. It cost about 19 bucks a month but if you can get the job done in a trial period with BeenVerified you don’t pay anything. I was with my boyfriend for 17 yrs. I totally get where you are coming from. Another thing I did was I planted a small Digital voice recorder under the passenger seat in his car. I had to put it in a sock and attach it to the under the seat to prevent it from sliding around . I got all I needed from that but it was only one sided conversations, until she decided to ride with him in the car one night on a …. date. Date my ass. CIA got nothing on ME. It was what I needed to Sever the heart strings. Believe me it isn’t easy and you will be devastated. Good luck

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  • July 22, 2018 at 7:33 am
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    Should i break up with him for good?

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  • December 14, 2018 at 3:43 pm
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    I been with my boyfriend for five years now. He told me he cheated on me. He also said that he isnt talking to the girl anymore, and that he wants to make something with me. What should i do? Forgive him, or break up with him?

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    • February 18, 2019 at 1:38 pm
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      Once a cheater…. always a cheater.

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  • July 8, 2019 at 12:53 am
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    I have been trying to collect information on my husband going on 2 yrs now. We have been married 39 yrs. Started dating when I was 14 , he 15. Now 3 grown children. We have always been best friends, lovers etc. Wonderful marriage. 6 yrs ago I was in a horrible car accident and became disabled. He had taken a job and had to travel. Worked 9 days home 4. Our whole marriage changed. I never had reason to doubt him but I was busy with kids and job. Now I think he’s been cheating all along and has become a heck of a liar.

    I got suspicious about 2 yrs ago. He never wanted sex. Which was opposite from our whole marriage. Never could get enough.
    In one yr had sex 7 times. Said he had ED. I made him a md appointment. He did not want me to go which has always not been the case. When he came home said he was too embarrassed to mention it to Doctor.
    Then I started pulling phone logs. To my surprised many suspicious numbers especially those of a co worker. I noticed a pattern. He would call me then her, then several locations of ppl I dont know. Then no calls at all for 2 to3 hrs. Then he would call me.
    So I brought it up to him . He got angry said I was crazy etc.

    Then he went out of town for a job that had to be dont non stop. I saw him 9 days in 3 months.
    When he came home there was no eye contact, he was anxious acted like he didnt want to talk to me. He was rude and very a secretive.

    The numbers on phone log were fake number. When I tried to trace them nothing could be traced. But one thing that didnt change was the pattern.

    I have driven myself crazy. I have traced thousands of numbers. I am at my waits end and dont know what to do. He will not admit to anything.
    I need advice.

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