These Are What Guilty People Do To Ease Their Conscience
Life is interesting, believe me it is. And the most intriguing thing is the fact that we are being governed by some certain laws of nature. For instance, if one defaults whether in an organization or in a certain confined setting, then it’s only inevitable that the aftermath action will be to impose appropriate punishment or sanction on such a person.
And if by any chance the the defaulter doesn’t want to play according to the rules by accepting to being punished, then, he/she will have to maneuver their way either through bribery or any other means available. Sadly today, this has gotten into our matrimonial homes were a spouse after committing a defiling act, tends to cover up their dreadful act by lavishing their partners with what I would term sets of “Uncalled for” gifts.
So in today’s article we’ll be looking at those gifts that guilty spouses give to their partners whenever they are culpable of an offense. And the good thing is that at the end of this write-up, you’ll be able to decipher on when a gift is actually a gift, and when it is a just a gesture of cover up for something mysterious. So without much ado, let’s get to know these gift!
Pardon me, but I’d love to start with this first, as it is always common in most relationships. If in a short notice, your spouse starts giving you kisses at awkward places or awkward times, then something is certainly fishy. Psychologically, that only happens when the subconscious mind of a person tends to make atonement for their mysterious offenses. And sometimes, it also spells out betrayal. So when next he or she gives you an awkward kiss, do cease that opportunity to ask them what’s really going on.
Cinemas at Odd Hours
If your spouse all of a sudden starts investing a colossal of efforts into taking you to watching movies at the cinemas, even when he ought to rest or go for a walk, then something is verily up. For instance, he comes back around 8.pm at night after a long day at work, and still insists on taking you out to the movies. How strange!
Getting you flowers
Receiving flowers from your spouse is such a beautiful thing until it starts coming at a clumsy sequence and time. Imagine him getting you flowers in a sunny Sunday afternoon, I mean, how awkward!
Collections of Jewelry
Yes, ladies love jewelry and we’d go extra length to getting a man that will meet this part of our needs. But, when you keep getting sets of jewelry collection worth good amounts of money, like almost every weekend, then there is certainly a skeleton in your husband’s cupboard.
Money is the most common way through which guilty spouses use in covering up for their hidden offenses. So, if in a short notice, he starts giving you huge amount of money every single second, with or without asking; in comparison to how he used to, then you better start digging up what’s really popping.
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As women, we can’t deny our undying love for a man that is ready to give us all his attention in the world. However, if your husband who barely used to give you attention, instantaneously starts showering you with a great deal of attention. Then chances are that he is trying to hide something from you. He is doing that to have your attention, and at the same time, wade off any opportunity of you finding out what’s actually going on.
Okay, now this is the big one. And it only occurs if the magnitude of the offense is very high. So, if he gets you a car, and soon after asks if you would love to get another, like your some car garage, then he is just trying to please you by all cost in order to take your eyes off the price.
Now, if you take a close look at these gifts there is something very common about them and that is the fact that your spouse will always get you all these gifts at odd times and moments.
So whenever you feel like he is acting a little bit clumsy by giving you gift both tangible and intangible that aren’t really called for at the moment, then he is certainly guilty of something. Just as we said earlier, if a person doesn’t want to dance to the tune of his music, then he’ll have to cut corners!
15 thoughts on “These Are What Guilty People Do To Ease Their Conscience”
Please can anyone help me
They do these things cause they ate seriously cheating specially if the other partner never give u the attention u deserve. Going thru THT crap now from an ads hole.
Girl they will do anything and say anything to try and cover things up.belive me ..my husband was going behind my back and talking to a whore he worked with we hadn’t even been married a year ..one day my phone was messed up so I just picked his up and was playing around with it when I saw a number that just kept comeing up and it showed he was calling it on his way to work and when he would get off work .so I called it on his phone and she answered and said hi honey .I was like who the hell is this and I’m not your honey and neither is my husband she acted dumm and hang up on me .my husband was like what are you doing that’s just a friend her ex boyfriend raped her and she needed someone to talk to needless to say I went off the deep end on him and told him I wanted a divorce ..but he promised he would stop talking to her and would never hurt me again I was dumm to believe it but I stayed because I loved him so much but please let me tell you it don’t stop once they start he put me through hell for 3 years after that he would just show enough love to keep me hanging on and to have hope .but he never stop he was even on a dateing site and weman where calling him and him calling them and I’m sure he was meeting up with them..he stop haveing sex with me started staying late at work and when he was home he would start fights with me so I would go to another room so he could text them I finally had enough and got divorced it’s so hard to walk away from someone you love with all your heart but it’s better to be alone then to be with a cheater
Women do the same thing. I’ve had a gf for the past six years. She even attempts to beat on me if I question anything she’s doing. I’ve had ash trays smashed over my head. She’s tried to stab me. All sorts of things to divert the attention away from her. Never admitting she’s wrong and always blaming anyone or anything else. Just saying
How much will it cost to see the text sms messages and phone calls to my girlfriend. He won’t let me see her phone. Says it’s private . always get on her about being on the phone texting when go out to eat. Will I be able to see all her texts and phone calls? Can you do this for free.?
Does it cost a lot to do this?
Without having her phone can I see who she’s calling and texting
There is a app you can download but you will have to get ahold of her phone and download it into it.but it’s worth it you can see and hear everything that is going on and it’s free the only thing it will use her Data it’s call track view .it’s really a good app if you want to see and hear what they are doing if she calls someone you can hear what is being said and she want have a clue
My husband is distant I can feel the change. He comes home late we hardly talk. We havent had sex for alittle over a month he don’t hold me with the same affection I don’t know what do I know I feel in my heart he has someone else if I ask him about anything it’s just a other argument what do I do
I don’t cheat on him I love him but I know he don’t love me anymore
Cheater alaways be cheater they’ll all way get caught!
I use to buy my wife flowers and surprise her I was raised by my grandparents was taught never hit a women no matter what and I have always done that on . I was married 25 yrs to my wife Cheryl .19 years ago her friend died in 2000 they where very close she was crying so bad .then she told me they a year before she made love to him and told me she was leaving with him if he did not die. I tried to forgive her after that I had lots of problems now 19 years later I made a dum mistake her in Sevierville Tennessee I thought she was texting another man because she was hiding her texting from me I thought she was I was wrong so I decided to whats good for the goose is good for the gander I started to text 2 women I got caught forgot my phone on easter sunday going to work .my wife found those text she done with me . my worst nightmare happen . those sign you have may tell someone cheats as I said I never slept with any one except her and I bought her flowers and necklaces very rare I never cheated as in with anyone . she of course tell everyone she never did cheat on me but 19 years ago she told me total different story anyway I paid the price by myself now I am alone hate it . thank you rick vokurka
My husband of 35 years farmed and worked late many many nights but that’s all a part of farming. But to my surprise was cheating on me and had been for a while. Never actually caught him but never really tried. I was busy raising our children and didn’t really want to know. After our children were grown and gone I caught him cheating. I was not actually there but I had a recorder on our back porch where we had a pool table and felt like she was coming and playing pool with him. She was a nobody and that really hurt me because I do have class about myself. I left him and went home to my mother’s for about 3 weeks. Then he started being so nice to me and was actually saying he was sorry (words he had never spoken before in our entire marriage) could not do enough for me treating me like I had always wanted to be treated so I went back to him but his sweetness only lasted two or three months, long enough to get me back in his arms. I have forgiven him but will never forget. I think about it everyday and it has truly affected our marriage. Once sure sign was he was pushing me away literally if I went to hug him he slowly pushed me away with his hands and never looked me in the eyes a SURE SIGN of a cheater. Never touched me and went from having sex every night to going for 2 and 3 weeks without it. I feel as though he is doing it again. What is width men why do they do this?
Your sad hurt friend!
I’m so sorry have to deal with this, I FEEL YOUR PAIN!! and wonder same thing, why do men have to do this?? 😥 I’ve been with my husband for 28 years, 3 kids,2 grandkids and finally bought a house 2 years ago & found out he was cheating. at 1st he made me out to be the crazy 1,it was all in my head, to then I was pushing him away, to someone else because I would question whenever he’d go out, why Need to stay out ALL night if not doing anything wrong? it became more frequent & I just couldn’t take it anymore, he finally left! I believe to go live with her, then comes back couple months later was ok at 1st but then back to same crap?? it’s been hell the past year! I think he is finally done & over with her? really dont know but I know I keep focusing on myself keep growing, becoming the person I want to be and try to live the life I want for me,my kids & grandkids. its still hard, it’s a daily battle but spending time with friends & family, working, reading a lot and having some fun really does help!! when I isolate or don’t keep busy then my head gets going with all the thoughts & thats when hard!! But I’m not positive if he is done with her or if there’s someone different? At moment says wants no relationship?? which hurts because he had wanted the chance with her at 1 point to see where it would go!! but our relationship wasn’t important enough to give us chance?? Finally said I CAN’T ALLOW HIM TO HURT ME ANYMORE!! need to live my life for me!! eventhough at this very moment we are back living together and pretty much live as a couple again?? dont understand, still confused, but know need to put me 1st now!!! sorry your dealing with this crap as well!! it does suck & I wish the best for you 🙏
If your children are grown, leave him. He clearly thinks because you took him back, he can do what he wants Nonsense
Why do women have to do this? When I met my recent ex I was two months away from finishing a 6month chemotherapy treatment for stage three lymphoma then after that just a few months later my father died of a heart attack and there were many signs that made me suspicious and I tried to make her comfortable to communicate with me and assured her if she was honest and wanted to make it work I would not get mere it anything because I loved her soo very much. Well fast forward two years later she wanted for nothing as I am very fortunate and no longer have to work and I’m financially well off. I was that amazing man who cleaned cooked would shop for groceries and find little things I knew she wanted or needed and get them so she would have the things she needed for work or her softball league snowboarding etc. I would go outa my way for her and her friends taking them to airport and always on top of everything as I am super organized and like things to be clean and neat especially since my immune system has been so weak after chemo. I was so fragile and hurting when I lost my father and had his family come after my sister and I due to their jealous desires of his financial success. I tried everything couples therapy my own personal therapy and when I would correct what she would put me down for lacking such as communicating or excepting her love etc. and then doing what she would ask of me and communicating etc I would get blown up on for communicating very calm and nicely. When I would reply saying wait you told me to come to you and communicate and even being nervous to do so I asked you if I could tell her how I was feeling and she promised not to get upset well then snap screaming at me going off and when I said hang on you promised not to get upset and scream at me she came back with oh what I’m not allowed to get upset I’m not allowed to have emotion omg your a sociopath. I was so confused and after I actually needed her support for a change and didn’t get was in fact punished for asking for her help she threw me to the curb like Tuesday nights trash and that is when I learned about narcissistic sociopathic And psychopathic behavioral issues people. Not only was my ex perfectly explained by those characteristics my mother even fell into that same category. So here I am two mo this outa all that that went down in the last two years no love of my life no father no mother since she can’t benefit financially she has not use for me and doesn’t call anymore unless it’s for money and my ex has been fabricating ridiculous rumors abt me the latest and most minD blowing Is that I was lying about my sexuality haha pretty gnarly stuff the way a woman can sleep with your so called best friends while ur at chemo and not show up to my fathers funeral for whatever bs reason and so on. The fact is it’s not Men it’s not Woman it’s had people with behavioral issues that literally live lives of lies and get off on having all these affairs while being with then sick cancer dude who lost his parents. The worst part is the fact that if there was anything I didn’t speak truth of or lied abt I tried to sit her down and explained each and every thing small and large so all my cards were on the table all in hopes she would come clean to me face but instead told me that I’m crazy and things she has said and done to me and in front of me we’re my wild imagination and me believing thoughts that never happened to actually be true. Well I did my own spy work and finally have gotten the proof and she still won’t admit anything and continues to reach out to my mother and sister and attempt to worry them saying terrible things about me and she doesn’t realized my mother could care less and my sister knows that my ex is a nut and has been telling me since day one that she had a bad feeling abt her. I recommend if u have any suspicions of your partner cheating that you simply look into narcissistic sociopathic psychopathic partners and you would be surprised how much just learning abt those behavioral issued people are will help you identify what’s going on. My ex had the exact word for word answers as I read in the info about narcissistic people and my ex actually falls more into the psychopathic category and it kills me I even tried to offer her help as a best friend I once thought we were so she could break her cycle when have a chance at a healthy happy relationship with a good man some day but as most guilty suck people do they just continue to deflect and point at me saying I’m the crazy one. Do yourselves the favor and research the behavior issues I listed above. To all the other victims out there men and women im truly sorry your experiencing this I know It’s very hard and extremely painful I wish there was something I could tell all of you to make things better but know this you are extremely special and it doesn’t make sense now but one day it will and this will have happened for a reason for ex why did I get cancer the nicest most caring special person my friends and family would say and now I realize if I didn’t undergo treatment my father wouldn’t have visited me across the country the 7 times he did snd it wouldn’t have seen him but once in the last year so it was a blessing in disguise and I hope I understand what all of this was for sooner than later but until then I will do my best to not lose myself and remain the special magical soul with the most love to give. Best of luck everyone remember keep on keepin on who knows what the tide will bring and it could always Be worse in just happy I still have my health.
I just want to stop.