10 Absolutely Unforgivable Lies Any Cheater Will Tell You
Every liar spins a web of lies that they use to support themselves, to cover their tracks and just keep that trail of absolute nonsense blazing behind them. The good news is that the “art form” of cheating is just as old as lying and if you know what the common lies are that most cheaters tell you’ll be far better equipped to handle them and beat them at their own game.
1. I took a 2nd job on the side
If you get this one then it’s pretty easy to ask them “well, where’s the 2nd check? If they can’t produce it then you caught them right on the spot! If they thought it through then you could always dig a bit deeper and find out where this supposed “2nd job” actually is and all that. But, I would keep the detective work hidden in the background. Check THIS PAGE out real quick if you want some tools to help you out.
2. I’ve got to work late again tonight
Right… and every night for the past few weeks? Who do you think you’re kidding with that one buddy because it isn’t me. This one is a bit more difficult to catch them on in many cases but if the opportunity arises and it’s necessary then looking into it might be in your benefit.
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3. I was just texting a friend / co-worker
If your significant other is always on that texting machine then you might have to consider their really popular with somebody- the question is who? Yeah, friends text all the time but let’s face facts here. There reaches a point when texting becomes excessive and suspicious so just keep an eye out for this one. If they’re getting texts at all hours of the day or night and it’s something you know isn’t the “norm” for them then there is something not exactly right going on here.
4. Yeah, everything’s fine
Is it? Is everything just fine or are you just having a brain fart right now and don’t know how to properly respond to a question so to buy some time you just threw out a generic answer? I’m willing to bet it’s the buying time thing, especially if there was no follow-up to that with a bit more details on what’s really going on.
5. I was just out with some friends
You’ll have to feel this one out because it may very well be true. What he was doing with said friends however, who’s to really say.
6. She’s just a friend
Again, this could be completely true but what sort of “friend” is she exactly, who’s to say for sure. It’s not the wisest thing to become overly suspicious of your significant other but in the hopefully unlikely event that your partner is mixed up in something unsavory you might want to look into it for yourself as best you can just so you can put those suspicions to rest or know they’re correct.
7. She understands me (or) she just gets me
Well isn’t that convenient for the both of you. I’m sure she “gets you” quite well and that’s just fantastic for you. What about the person who you’re actually supposed to confide in and share things with, what about your partner, what about you! If your significant other is going to someone else for emotional support, especially if it’s to talk about the hardships your relationship may be going through then you can count that as a huge red flag.
8. It’s not what it looks like
Yeah, we all know about this one and it’s a pretty common one I’m sorry to say. Let me just put this out there by saying that sure, there is a slight chance it’s really not all that bad, it’s ‘not what it looks like” but the unfortunate truth is that most of the time it’s exactly what it looks like. You just weren’t supposed to see it.
9. You’re cheating on me, aren’t you?
Cheaters and liars expect to be cheated on and lied to. It’s hard for them not to view the world in this way because it’s how they navigate through it themselves. Also, shifting blame is a really great way to take some of the heat off of yourself for a while which gives them time to think up an even better lie.
10. I still love you (or) I just didn’t want to hurt you
If you’ve caught them in the act of cheating and they give this sob story about how they don’t want to hurt you and blah blah then they’re probably not somebody you want to continue on with in the future. The thing about people who can’t remain faithful to the one they supposedly “love” is that they have this constant need for validation and they’re willing to go through great lengths to get it, even if that means cheating on the “one they love.”
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My fiance phone was ringing at 6 am in the morning and I picked up his phone and rejected it then something told me to look through his phone. Found out he was sexting this woman nicknamed Jiggles. I forgave him and took him back that was July 2. Then in November he was suppose to take me to pick up a turkey and food I called to remind him the night before and he tells me he is driving(on the road as we are talking) a woman friend and her kids to North Carolina I’m totally done!!!
My wife’s been cheating on me, but has been hiding it from me using my past against me!! Won’t except any blame for the state of our relationship and puts all the blame on me!! I believe she’s been on some site or app that does random hookups for sex!! I love her so much!! She says she loves me, but it doesn’t feel like love! When she can go for hours without textn me or one phone call, she use too call n text me all the time! It hurts that she continues to try n pull the wool over my eyes and play on my intelligence, how do i make it stop?? We’ve got 16 yrs vested in our marriage!! I don’t want to lose my wife!! I’ve even went so far as to try to catch her on some site’s by making profiles that seem genuinely real so i can hear the backlash, it’s been a nightmare, help me!!!
I’ve got a keylogger on my phone, which my husband also uses. I’ve caught him texting his female friend stating that he wanted some of her friend and also stating that he’s surprised that his friend and him have not had sex yet. But he swears he’s never actually cheated on me. And his Google maps showed places he wasn’t supposed to be and swears google maps is wrong. What to believe?
Honey Google maps is not wrong!! I’ve heard the same exact thing too many times!! And you caught him in the act, no matter if they had not had sex yet, he was panning on it, and that’s enough!! You desirve better sweetie!!! Good luck!!
What is a kylogger and can I put it on my husband phone without him knowing
I just got out of a 4 ur relationship, with one of the most deceitful human beings I have ever come a crossed. I literally drove myself insane searching for the truth! He was such a master at his game, and loved the reactions he got out of me. I loved him so much, and thought maybe if I give him time, he’ll pick me over his hookups and secret life? Not the case, the more time I put in, the more he was able to make me look like a lunatic. It was perfect for him! Even though he lived at his grandma’s, had no job, and lied about EVERYTHING! The time, energy, and love I put into the relationship only gave him the ammunition he needed to manipulate others, all the while making me out to be the pos. It’s mind blowing that there are so many people that live their lives this way!? My eyes are wide open now, and that shit will never happen to me again. But wow!? Wtf!??! It was so painful, and one sided, I wrote men off for good! Thanks for reading, and I appreciate any feedback or comments… Thanks Jesse
That sounds like exactly what I’m going through right now
Omg, you’re living my life.
I’m so fed up with his lies, I can’t take it anymore. He’s a pathological liar and a sociopath.
I swear these men are EVERYWHERE!!! Just found out my bf of 2 years is cheating on me for the 2nd time. I cannot believe this is happening…again! He says I’m the one lying and cheating but it’s clearly him. Idk until reading this that’s how cheaters navigate thru life? Makes perfect sense. Now, if I can just put my broken heart back together and carry on w the rest of my life…without him.
It’s definitely easier said than done!
Is this guy having a girls name? I just got left on sat. It was because he “was sick of being accused all the time” he was not accused, its the I DON’T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO MY TRUCK. Put TONS of miles on my dodge, Tons of damage, and took it off road many times. And he says ” I left it parked in the same place all day” He took his work truck out with him. When he moved out in April, he saw me quite little(but we were still together) and he started keeping his phone with him at all times. He gets texts all the time and when i ask who is that, he snaps at me(vocally) We have been living to gether since dec ’16. Before that he moved out April ’16. We were living together since july 12, 2014
I get the blame thrown back at me if i make a comment she get super mad i cant even make conversation she dont even care but she want to talkabout other people and what they said or done and that has all her attention or she stuck on snapchat also she has even respond to her boss its nice to be reconized and apprecated had always talking and laughing with him and not me what you think
Sounds like you are living my life. Maybe my husband and your wife deserve each other. They sound just alike
34 yrs of marriage and 4 kids this is the 3rd time I’ve caught him cheating and it’s always with someone he works with. This time I had suspicions but couldn’t get his phone as he guarded it with his life by some miracle someone hacked his Facebook and sent me messages from his messenger. Really wish I knew who it was so I could thank them. Anyway he won’t except any responsibility or any blame. It’s all my fault and the person who hacked him. He shows no remorse and gets mad if I say anything. I love him and don’t want to throw my marriage away and he says he loves me but I can’t live like this anymore. Help! What do I do when he won’t admit that what he done was wrong?
I have to admit i have searched his phone several times which proved he was cheating when confronted he still denied i have learned he is a narcisist i have really looked into his behavior and researched it now i am able to understand why he is the way he is. He had a roughchildhood and life. I pray forhim daily but i now know its not me. And that is what has woken me up. He is my love of my life yet i know i deserve more.