Is Your Spouse Snooping Around Craigslist? Find Out With These Codes
So you’re cruising the information superhighway and discover that the website for Craigslist pops up anytime you type the letter “C” into your browser… “That’s weird”.
You don’t visit the wild west of the internet, and you know that your significant other doesn’t either- right?
Out of nothing more than curiosity you check the site out and notice it’s already pre-set to your city, another red flag. Pretty soon you’ll be able to decorate a used car lot with all these red flags! On top of this stuff you notice that some of the links are already highlighted, and they’re in the personals section of the site.
Browsing some of the bizarre listings you start to notice that a few of them are also highlighted which is an indication they’ve been visited by your computer. Opening a few of these up you begin to see some really weird words you can’t quite figure out the meaning of. Those weird words are going to be the focus of today’s reading.
By deciphering what this gibberish means you’ll be able to better understand if you’ve got anything to possibly worry about or if your spouse is just looking around out of boredom or whatever.
Your Craigslist Decoder-Ring
Fun Times: We’re starting off with possibly one of the more obvious ones. “Fun times” pretty much means the poser wants to hook up. You’re usually going to spot this one in the “casual hookup” section of the personals. If you happen to stumble upon this more than a few times it could be safe to say you should toss another shiny red flag on the pile.
Massage or Casual Encounters: Let’s just start off by saying that a lot of these offers for massages expect some sort of monetary exchange to take place for services rendered, if you catch my drift. Not only that, if you happen to see DDF somewhere in the post which means “drug/disease free” you can bet your bottom dollar they might be lying. If that isn’t enough to keep you from responding to such an add how about the fact that Newsweek did a report which illustrated how Craigslist hookups were responsible for about 16% increase in cases of HIV.
ABR/ANR: Keeping it simple, this one stands for Adult Breastfeeding Relationship or Adult Nursing Relationship. If your partner is hitting these ads up then something’s most certainly afoot and you should get to the bottom of it using the resource listed at the bottom of this article.
Cranked / Molly / Tina / Poppy / Ski / Ice / Skate: And so many others! All of it means drugs of various sorts.
Help / Tips / Donation / “Generous” / Roses / Sugar: All of this means money for services rendered. You’re going to see a lot of propositioning for sex in exchange for cash on Craigslist; we call this prostitution in the real world.
Wet-Works / Water Works: You’ve probably guessed it- they want to either pee on you, or be peed on.
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It goes down in the emails
The usual means of communication between people on Craigslist is email. There will be times when people try to put their phone numbers down in clever ways (because Craigslist doesn’t allow actual phone numbers in posts) and they’re easy to identify. It’ll usually look something like this:
2 one oh – 7 seven too… fourtyfive eleven
Now, I don’t recommend you bother texting these numbers much less calling them. But I suppose if you have a creeping suspicion and you just have to know then the resource is there at your disposal.
One thing to note is that these posts often times get pulled down from Craigslist, this is known as “flagging” and when that happens then you might not get to see everything that’s been going on with the site but chances are good you’ll still be exposed to most of it… if you can count on that as “good news.”
Check those contacts
It won’t take long before the emails move over to texts and often times actual phone calls. If you suspect something is up it might serve well to check your spouse’s contacts list. Jot those numbers down or snap a few screenshots and text them back to yourself… just be sure to delete them immediately because that’ll just seem weird to them if not.
Once you’ve got the goods head over to THIS RESOURCE and get to work. You just might uncover something you had no clue of before.
8 thoughts on “Is Your Spouse Snooping Around Craigslist? Find Out With These Codes”
I had done some investigating and found all kinds of things! He denies everything and has been very abusive when he talks to me – he has talked terrible about me to these other people ! I have attempted to call a few – and he gets extremely angry . I know I am right -there are too many red flags. I am devastated – but I have been married 32 years and never dreamed I would go through this – but I am. I am going to proceed with divorce it is obvious he wants out ! I am hurt and very disgusted .
I know how that feels first hand. My hisband talks to me with such anger in his voice i dont think i can handle it anymore. But i dont feel he deserves to lrave me after all the hell he has put me through. Its heen going on f o r 10 yrs it started off here and there, but now he does it all the time. I gave him a window to leave without any retaliation. But it has come and gone. All the stress he has put me through has done its toll on me. He has knocked out my teeth, he tell me how ugly i am, he embarasses me in public just to get noticed, he says he hates me. Heres the thing i dont care if he hates me, feeling r mutual. I will not let him go be with whoever it is that has caused me to go through such hell. If i ever get the truth she will not ever be happy again as far as this loser man of mine is concerned. I will pay to have their pictures posted on a big bill board sign on the side of the highway in our town for all to see. It will read,” BEWARE of these HOMEWREAKERS. He was looking when he found this one. What he lost was far more valuable than anything she can give him. If seen please crack jokes there way just for a laugh. Thanks from the world he lost due to CHEATING.
I know it’s been a while since you posted this Aeza and I hope you did the right thing and left him because any man that puts there hands and cheats on a woman they so call loves don’t really loves her or have a bit of respect for her follow your gut it will take you where you need to be and please don’t let noone put there hads on you you don’t deserve that I don’t care if he said why he done it you do not deserve it no matter what
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My boyfriend completely denies any wrong doing with his secret phone even erased his location when he went out of town I’m coming across more sneaky and shady stuff all the time I wish I had concrete proof Help I going to loose it in the meantime I look like the crazy one
Every man that try’s to make you look like the crazy one is cheating anything that’s being erased is cheating I mean unless his phones full and he has to make room in it never loose yourself just follow you gut feeling it will always take you where you need to be goodluck and I hope everything works out for you
Ok so I believe my husband of 23 years is or was cheating on me. I got a email on my phone with his email and another females email it basically was a craigslist post that my husband replied to it even had our location where we was staying at the time for her to co.e meet him. So I told him let me see your phone and instead of handing it over he took off and threw his phone in the trash basically. We got in a physical fight he would not let me leave basically held me in a room saying he doesn’t want to lose me. He is now in prison and he wants to come back to me what do any of you all think. Did he cheat? And how can I get over him???
I been cheated on before .its no fun having to go threw this .