Cheating is far too easy to do these days and the sad truth is that because it’s so easy it becomes tempting for some people.
Catching them in the act is nearly impossible with everything they need sitting right in their pocket and it’s probably got some kind of pass-code on it too so unless you’ve got that code, that device is locked and out of your possession. Or is it?
We’ll get back to that thought in just a moment but first let’s talk about things which lead up to having any need to look at your partner’s phone, it’s important to understand the foundation which leads to insecurity and the tarnishing of trust.
The exploitation of trust
We all want to believe what our significant other has to say. It makes us feel safe and secure within our relationships and that’s obviously a very good thing.
Instead of coming to the unpleasant conclusion and then making accusations we often choose to believe in a “pleasant lie” and go with that instead, turning a blind eye. Chances are, you might even know somebody who’s obviously overlooking some misdeeds their spouse is doing in an attempt to keep the flow going; even though it tears them up inside. You don’t want to be that person, in the end it’s simply not worth it.
Fact is that cheating partners take advantage of that trust and exploit it to their advantage. They may even know that you know but so long as you keep on pretending that you don’t, or as long as you keep letting them slide they will just continue to keep doing what they’re doing.
A few signs they’re cheating on you
If you suspect your partner is cheating then they’re taking advantage of your trust and desire. It’s very hard to just give out a list of cheating-signs but there are some things you can always keep an eye out for that could set off some red-flags.
You know your partner best so if some things which may seem “out of the ordinary” for some don’t apply to them then it’s safe to say you can just ignore those. On the opposite side of that, the reverse may be true so basically what we’re relying on here is instinct but for a good reason.
Are they suddenly trying to lose weight where they’ve never seemed interested before? Maybe it’s something they’ve been talking about for a while though, in that case this might not be an indicator.
Are they coming home late from work more often than usual, or is there perhaps some schedule change that seems out of place?
Are they checking their phone way more often than usual for them?
Don’t let your suspicion become their crutch
Something very important to keep in mind is the fact you may not actually know if they are cheating on you or not.. Yet.
It’s for that reason it’s always a good idea to keep your suspicions to yourself for the time being until you can gather more proof to back up your suspicions. When you do this and it begins to look like maybe there just isn’t enough to back up your suspicions then you have to be ready and willing to let them go.
These types of emotions are very strong within us and they can become extremely destructive which will only help to push your partner away from you which is the exact opposite of what we want here.
How do you get what you need
You could go on a hunt for the information you need all on your own and possibly find a lot of valuable information all by yourself, but why do it when you run the risk of being found out yourself (imagine that cheating so-N-so coming up to you asking why you’re looking up their intimate details, then go on some rant only to accuse you of something!) no, you don’t need to go that rout.
Let the professionals who have complicated tools do the hard work for you so you don’t have to fus with complex tools yourself. On top of that, the entire process is so easy it will only take a minute or two, once you’ve got the required information at hand, and then you’ll be all set!
If you have their email address then you can look around every social media and dating site you can possibly find yourself and literally spend days or possibly weeks searching endless profiles yourself or…
Have a look at the following resource and let them do it for you.
This second option is more tricky but you’d be surprised how many opportunities come up that’ll let you get what you need.
You can in fact do something called a Reverse Phone number Look-Up and it’s super simple. You do need to get the phone numbers you’d like to look up and then head over to…
Then you can do a search on as many numbers as you wish once you’ve got an account all set up and are ready to go.
The easiest way that we’ve found to get ahold of your partners phone is to fake like you’ve lost yours and you need to call your job for some reason… Checking your schedule, calling in sick, double checking to make sure you are supposed to show up on a certain day, the reason why is literally anything that makes sense.
If they outright deny you the use of their phone for something so important then right there on the spot you have a huge red flag and know something just might be up.
If they give you permission to use it but need to take a moment before they hand it over and then they go off to do something (with their phone) then chances are good they’re off clearing all the evidence out first before handing it over to you.
Obviously when doing this you want to hide your own phone and maybe not let it be seen by them for a few days or a week. If they see it they’ll probably grow suspicious of you and then they’ll start snooping around on you to see what’s going on.
Hopefully this is helpful to you and if you come up with any good ideas of your own with how to get your partner’s phone to sneak a peek at that contact list then let us know in the comments, I’m sure we’d all love to hear about it.