To many people, cheating in a relationship is inevitable, at least for the guys they say. And while this may be true, nevertheless, it doesn’t always have to be so. It is possible for a couple to stay years together without cheating on each other. All it takes is just a matter of commitment from both parties in the relationship. However, the sad reality is that most people in relationships now cheat. So if your partner is one of those, how do you get to know? What sneaky ways can you use to know if he/she is cheating on you? If you’re as confused as most men are on this subject , then I’m glad to let you know that you’re certainly at the right point. Get your minds ready because, we are all about to bust a the cheaters!
This is the often the perfect time to catch any cheater. If you’re skeptical about their mobile chats, then while they are asleep is the best time to check their phones. If it’s the type that normally cheats on you with another person under the same roof, then pretend at night like you’re asleep and you will be surprised at how the whole event is going to unfold before your very eyes.
The implication theory
This is somehow weird, but believe me, it works! And how does this happen? Try asking them what’s bothering you in front of their friends, coworker or in public. Questions like, darling is it true that you’re seeing Linda mike’s receptionist? The logic behind such question is that, if he/she is guilty, their facial expression will go in contrary to what their reply will be. Like they may answer with a fake grin on their faces, that way you’ll then be sure that there is a truth in your suspicions. Also, you can apply this if you really want to go through their chat. While in front of their friends or associates, request for their phone to be given to you. I bet they wouldn’t want to look weird in front of their pals!
Although this might seem a little out of the book, but sometimes it does pay off. If your partner ever loved you or still does, and you make an attempt to asking them if they are cheating on you, instantaneously, their first facial expression will tell it all. If they love you enough, they’ll let you know, if they don’t then they’ll lie to you.
Truth and Dare
Personally, This game is specifically meant for cheaters! So whenever your spouse is in a good mood, and you’re skeptical about their doings, introduce the truth and dare game, especially after good moments like sex, dinner or any other. And while playing the game make sure to bring in your skeptical questions at the middle of it. Don’t start with the deep questions first and don’t end with it too. That way, you’ll get whatever answers you’re looking forward to.
Another sneaky way to know a cheating partner is if he/she starts putting more effort into her physical appearance. Now ask yourself, who’s your spouse really looking good to impress? So if you ask them about the sudden development, and they flare up in anger, chances are that they are up to something not good.
Talk less listen more
If you wish to get more information from someone especially a spouse, try to listen more and speak less. The more a person talks the more they subconsciously pour out their hearts and minds. So start conversations, interrupt less, and pay attention to each and every word that will be said. From there you’ll be to gather up every information you need.
Install a GPS on his phone or car
Thanks to modern inventions, one can now monitor another’s whereabouts. So if you are having doubts about your spouse’s faithfulness, have a GPS on either his phone or car. And boom, their location is all yours! Now, it’s probably a good idea to look into the legal aspect of this and if it’s okay to do it where you live but hey, if it is then there’s one more possibility for you. If it’s not then it’s probably not a good idea to go with this option… just saying.
Ask the friends
Buy your spouse’s friend some McDonald’s donut and chilled coca cola. Thereafter mildly interrogate them on your husband’s friendship outside. If this is done, chances are that you’ll get vital information out of the conversation.
In a nutshell, there are a plethora of ways to which one can know if the partner is cheating or not. And the good thing about these sneaky ways is that, it can be done without causing much alarm. For instance, if your spouse is fond of coming home late at night, and you believe he/she is cheating, then you can either play a truth and dare game when they are settled and relaxed, or you can chose to ask them whenever they are in front of their friends or associates. That way, you’ll be able to find out if your spouse is cheating or not!